How Do I Get The Girl

by Roger
(US)

I want to use the law of attraction to get this girl I am really interested in. How can I get this done? How can I use the law of attraction to get her to like me?

ANSWER

Roger, there are many responses to this question.

First, you shouldn't use the law of attraction to control other people. It doesn't work like that. She has her own path, thoughts and universal responses.

Second, to impose your desires upon another person's free will is in itself for most people, unattractive. You're setting yourself up for an uphill battle.

Third, if you are focusing on the fact that your not getting the girl, YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GET THE GIRL! The law of attraction states, "you get what you think about".

Plus, If you think something is not possible or out of your reach, you're probably not going to commit much energy and resources to accomplishing it. By not committing yourself to reaching your end goal, your goal may very well remain out of reach.

Fourth, focus the law of attraction on YOU not other people. Your best bet is not to focus on getting this specific girl but rather focus on the type of person you want to attract, the type of feelings you want to feel. Visualize yourself feeling the love, laughing, sharing. Always always focus on what you want and not on what you don't want.

Did it ever occur to you that you may have, in the past, already told the universe that you didn't want to deal with a certain type of girl, pushy, self centered, liar, needy, etc.? Maybe she has one of the qualities you already told the universe you DIDN'T want and the law of attraction is just doing it's job. ;)

Think positively in the direction you do want to see this relationship going. Envison the good stuff... your happiness together, her responding to you in a warm way, kindnesses you can bestow on her to get her thinking in your direction.

Remember, you must see it, believe it, take action to achieve it. Getting Michael Webb's book "Getting Her Back For Good" might be an action worth taking.

Connie

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